It's funny when I was younger I used to joke with my girlfriends that I wish I had a manual on the secrets of LOVE and authentic intimate relationships that made sense to me -- I would never have expected that my life would lead me to write one... but it did!
Firstly I was born with wonderful spiritual gifts and powerful energy healing abilities which for a time I turned my back on and choose to take a more traditional ( ie: acceptable, so not to be considered weird) route.
I spent a lot of time, money and energy trying to get over abuse in my past and driven to figure out what a healthy relationship should look and feel like. Plus to put lots of letters behind my name as a professional therapist as validation.
I worked hard to became a specialist in attachment/love/relationships/human development and worked with families, children, individuals and couples. I was great at helping them improve their self worth and relationships yet still with the old methods of lots of analysis, time and effort.
No matter how hard I tried my own personal life just wouldn't improve!
Not only was I still attracting men with the same M.O. - distant, cold, critical and unavailable, but I was stuck in repeating unhealthy patterns, drained by the relationships and feeling frustrated and such a failure...
Then one day, I met a man who seemed so right, so kind and so funny, who without warning became so very wrong and I was knocked on my knees!
Everything I'd spent years collating about healthy relationships and the masculine so I could feel safe, seemed worthless!
I was confused, hurt and had completely lost my sense of self. I was back feeling like a victim again; powerless, vulnerable and confused.
YET SOMETHING INCREDIBLE HAPPENED - HE WAS TO BE MY GREATEST GIFT FROM LOVE!
As I gave up and surrendered to my pain I found clarity and rediscovered the MISSING ESSENTIAL COMPONENT to my relationship success!
It was from that moment I SHIFTED MY FOCUS AWAY FROM TRYING TO UNDERSTAND MEN & WOMEN.
Turning towards what really makes successful relationships happen AND can cause them to flow with ease or be hard work and fail: The Energy of LOVE!
I was to become my BEST CLIENT as I got out of my head and and back into my body and reclaimed my spiritual gifts and LOVE energy healing abilities for myself.
I integrated what I innately knew, with what I had learned and researched and discovered a much simpler, faster and more joyful path to LOVE, attraction and successful intimate relationships.
I transformed as I went from being locked in a pattern of anxiety, lack of self worth and abuse -- to self-appreciation, joy, radiance, attraction and confidence all by shifting my relationship with LOVE!
IT WORKED FOR ME - SO I TRIED IT WITH MY CLIENTS!
Once I saw the deep transformations for myself in my own life I began perfecting my mind/body & energy *BIG LOVE and relationship tools and techniques!
As I shared them with my clients and they started getting much more POWERFUL and lasting RESULTS.
It was then I was drawn to focus solely on empowering women who were ready to put the past relationship mistakes and hindering love beliefs behind them, and were open to learning how to take charge of their love life with LOVE!
I believed and still do that women are Goddesses of LOVE with untapped magic within!
Having spent years in therapy myself and believing in it I was ASTOUNDED by how quickly they fell deeply into LOVE with themselves completely and unconditionally.
Then how FAST RESULTS manifested into their love-lives once they embodied the power of LOVE as their fuel and foundation - life just reflected back their new energy and beliefs.
It changed everything I had believed in as I returned home to LOVE.